ALBANY, NY (NEWS10) – Monday’s social dilemma came from Lance, and these are indeed first dates.
Hi Jaime, this is a social dilemma for you. I have been married to my wife Jill for just under 4 years. We are in our early sixties and she is a beautiful woman. We were talking about first dates one night, and she told me this story. She worked in the household and cleaned a gentleman’s house. He was talking to her while she was doing her job, and he looked nice. At the end of her stay at home, he invited her out. Sounds pretty good, right? But he asked her to go to a nudist colony with him. He even showed her some pictures and promised it wasn’t a mean thing, it was just a nice way to hang out. He kept saying that it had nothing to do with intimacy, just a different way of getting to know someone. I heard this story and thought, yes that’s right, he wanted to date her. But most people think I’m wrong when I mention that he lied about his intentions. My answer is, if you are meeting someone for the first time and want to see them in a social situation, wouldn’t you just invite them over for dinner or something that doesn’t require nudity? I like to know what your listeners think? Thank you very much Jaime
Wow, this is an interesting way to invite someone on a first date. I will say this, it wouldn’t work for me, but that being said. I’ve known people who’ve been to the nude beach and other nude events who swear up and down that it has nothing to do with that kind of privacy, it’s just about the freedom . So while I agree with Lance that it’s probably not a great way to ask someone on a first date, I’m not sure I agree that ‘he was trying to’ get along with her ‘.
Let’s see what you think? Would you be offended if someone asked you to go out this way? Let me know about the TRY.